" Reno i don't hate you. I can't hate somebody i don't even know. I have no issues with you. I just don't think i can help you in the way you need. That's all. Im going through my own struggles right now.  I have to deal with that right now and make it a priority. I told you if you ever needed someone to just listen i could try to offer some constructive advise but that's really all i can do. "