Love Is A Blessing

" Let’s begin with what love is not to get that out of the way. Love is not: 

Expecting someone to make you feel good

Making sure a person does what you want them to do

Wanting someone to replace your sense of loneliness

Controlling another person’s actions

Attempting to get someone to obey you

Being treated as special

Being seen as you would prefer to be seen

Finding that one soul mate

Having someone tell you that you’re right

Always agreeing with you

That’s a good start.

So, what is love then?

Love is: 

Allowing another to live the life he/she chooses with or without you

Accepting what benefits another as it is without trying to change it

Allowing yourself to be seen

Seeing another as he/she is rather than what you want.

Recognizing another is divine exactly as he/she is 

You will notice that the list is a bit smaller for what love is than what love is not.  

There are many concepts the human mind believes defines love that are not true. 
  

Love is simple. There is not a lot to be said about it except that it is the allowance of letting a person be while sharing the benefit he/she is to the world – without having to define or change that benefit.

Often, it is said that “God is love”. Using that concept then, God/Source accepts and allows you to be the love that it is without attempting to change you or make you conform to a set of concepts “belonging” to It.

If you believe that Source wants you to live your life in a particular way, then you, as Source, have made that decision. 

There is no Source Consciousness outside of you expecting anything of you.  

Whatever you expect is what you have decided you want to experience and only you have the ability to make or change that expectation.

Source is neutrally beneficent.

Source neutrally benefits all. You are Source. You neutrally, impersonally benefit all whether you know it or not.

Every breath, feeling, thought, word and deed benefits all of life everywhere eternally. No matter what you think you are doing, believing or being, that is what is happening.

If you want to become more conscious of how you are imprinting yourself within All That Is, then you must allow yourself to drop the beliefs that tell you that you are “only human”.  

You are a circle of love advancing from you into the omniverse infinitely in all directions, all realms, all dimensions.

There is nowhere that you are not capable of emitting this love. You are the center point, the focus point of the love that you give you and is then emanated out into the all. Remember, that the definition of this “love” is neutral and impersonal.

You are not attempting to make anyone be anything other than what he/she is right now. You honor and bless each person exactly as he/she is whatever the situation may be. Love is a blessing. When you send your intention of blessing to another, you are directing the love charge that is your biologic signature to bestow love upon another. 
  

How can you do that if you are not love? You cannot. You might say that you ask God to bless someone. Yet, you are God so you are asking yourself to conduct the blessing. It is simply easier to believe that someone else is bigger, stronger, purer, more worthy and capable to “do the blessing”. 

No thing could be further from the truth. Not only are you worthy, you are so worthy that in blessing someone else, you bless yourself as well.

So, as you go about your daily life, realize that only by putting your attention fully and completely upon the love that you are, by giving that love to yourself neutrally and impersonally, will you be able and capable to give it to another. 

If you put yourself aside, then you have put all of the others aside as well because you live in a world based upon the Principle of Resonance.

You cannot be one thing and do another. It is impossible. What you are being is what you transmit into the whole.

In desiring relationship, in yearning for intimacy with another fellow human, love is the preface, not the result. Fulfilling connections, expanding unions rest only on a foundation of love, neutrally and impersonally.

This type of union finds ease and flow within the natural “weness” rather than the “you” and “meness”. Communication is open, authentic and present no matter the subject or experience.

 
Being love not only invites you to be seen by another, it allows the other to see you as they see you rather than how you wish they would see you. You don’t have to pretend nor do you have to make sure you accomplish anything to another’s liking. You are able to be yourself. 

  


Therefore, it does not feel like the relationship exacts a price from you. If you feel that any “state of love” you find yourself within costs you something, ask yourself where your authenticity is within the relationship. Because that is the price you are paying. 

True love exacts no price, ever. True love is neutral, has no expectations tied to it, does not control or condemn and allows both or all members to feel divine freedom. 
  

Impersonal love is authentic, accepting and allowing. Each human being intimately knows what is perfect for him/her. You don’t know what another needs despite the position you may play in his/her life.

You may believe you know yet that is a thought, a human thought rather than the allowance of Source. It doesn’t mean you will always agree. 

  

It does mean that you do not judge nor insist. Examine your “love relationships”. See where they are neutral and if not so, why. Free yourself as you free others to live as the impersonal love that is Source. "

--Neale Donald Walsch

Hiddenite

Hiddenite is a pale-to-emerald green variety of spodumene that is sometimes used as a gemstone. The first specimens of the hiddenite variety of spodumene were recovered about 1879 near the tiny settlement of White Plains, west of Stony Point, Alexander County, North Carolina.  

On the level of the astral body, Hiddenite helps in recuperating from emotional loss. It is a useful stone for attracting love and business success.  

Hiddenite is also a calming and balancing crystal that will help you uncover your buried emotions of compassion and charity.

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